Bokeh - is the opposite of sharpness. The blur effect is something to be appreciated in a photograph.
To me it is art!Anyway, blur-ness is not something to be appreciated by all especially in everyday's life. Sharpness of the mind is something to be favoured.
This picture I took last year, I am always fascinated by lights and the bokeh behind - I think it is mad awesome.
Taking pictures is another form of therapy of mine to get my mind off things ( last time it was painting )
I can say going through May is a challenge. A sharp mind for certain things is what I need yet need to bokeh out some of the un-important stuff to get my focus right.
Be realistic and take things as it is. That's the mantra for now.